Rear differential locker engagement while driving is one of those subjects that gets bad advice quickly. One guy says you must stop completely. Another says to mash the switch at any speed and let the locker sort itself out. Both can be wrong, depending on the axle, actuator, vehicle speed, and the instructions from the manufacturer. I have seen a locker engage cleanly on a rocky climb and watched another refuse to lock because the teeth were loaded against each other. The difference was technique, not luck.
A selectable rear locker connects both axle shafts so they turn together. That is useful when one tire is light, airborne, or sitting on slick rock. It is not a magic button for every loose surface. Use it with the tires pointed mostly straight, modest throttle, and enough wheel speed for the mechanism to align without shock loading the axle.
What the locker is doing inside the axle
An open differential lets the left and right wheels rotate at different speeds during a turn. That is why a vehicle can corner on pavement without dragging a tire. Its weakness appears when one tire has almost no traction. The differential sends available torque through the path of least resistance, and the spinning tire gets most of the action.
A locked differential removes that freedom. A mechanical locker uses internal gears, pins, or clutch components to couple both axle shafts. A selectable unit, such as an air-operated ARB-style locker or an electric Eaton ELocker, normally remains open until you command it. Once locked, both tires receive torque, but they must also rotate at the same average speed. That matters whenever the vehicle is turning.
Rear differential locker engagement while driving usually works best during a slow, straight approach to an obstacle. Select the locker before the tire loses all momentum, ease off the throttle for a moment, and wait for the indicator to confirm engagement. You may hear a click, feel a small change in driveline behavior, or see a dashboard light. Do not assume the light is telling the truth if the wiring or sensor has already been damaged.

Can you engage a rear locker while moving?
Sometimes. The correct answer is in the axle manual, not in a universal internet rule. Some selectable lockers are designed to engage while rolling at low speed. Others require the vehicle to be stopped or moving below a specified speed. On many four-wheel-drive systems, the transfer case must already be in 4WD, and the locker may not engage until the axle shafts rotate slightly relative to one another.
For rear differential locker engagement while driving, I use a simple field procedure. First, slow to walking pace. Second, straighten the steering as much as the trail allows. Third, apply light throttle or let the vehicle creep. Fourth, activate the locker and briefly unload the drivetrain by easing off the gas. If the light does not come on, do not keep hammering the switch. Roll backward a few inches, try again, and listen for the actuator.
Never engage a locker at highway speed or while one rear tire is spinning aggressively. The sudden speed difference can create a hard driveline shock. That shock travels through the axle shafts, gears, driveshaft, U-joints, and transfer case. A locker may survive the event, but a ring-and-pinion tooth or a tired 1350 U-joint may not.
When locking the rear axle helps
A rear locker earns its place on steep ledges, cross-axle dips, slick sandstone, and loose climbs where one tire repeatedly unloads. On the Arizona trails around Flagstaff, I use it when a rear tire starts to spin while the front tires still have a useful line. The locker lets the tire with traction keep pushing instead of wasting engine power on a spinning wheel.
It can also help a lightly loaded rig climb a loose slope with less momentum. That is safer than charging the obstacle fast enough to damage suspension parts. With a Toyota 4Runner, Jeep Wrangler, or Ford Bronco, the exact button location and engagement logic differ, but the driving principle remains the same: low speed, straight wheels, smooth torque.
A locked rear axle is not always better in mud. If both tires spin, the vehicle can dig two holes quickly. On a side slope, the extra push from the rear can make throttle control more abrupt. Unlock it before descending a tight, high-traction turn. Rear differential locker engagement while driving should be treated as an obstacle tool, not a permanent setting.
What can go wrong
The common failure is turning sharply on a high-traction surface with the locker engaged. The outside tire needs to travel farther than the inside tire, but the locked axle resists that difference. The result is tire scrub, steering push, and windup through the driveline. On pavement, this can stress axles and gears while making the vehicle handle badly.
Another failure is using too much throttle when the locker engages. I have pulled broken axle shafts from rigs that had plenty of expensive suspension work but no restraint in the right foot. A locker increases traction; it does not make a factory axle indestructible. Bigger tires, low gearing, and engine torque can expose the weakest part quickly.
Electrical and air systems create different problems. An electric locker may have a damaged harness near the differential cover. An air locker may have a leaking line, weak compressor, or contaminated solenoid. If the indicator flashes but the axle still spins one tire, stop treating the switch as proof. Test the system on a safe, loose surface and inspect the actuator before the next remote trip.

How to disengage it without drama
Disengage the locker before returning to firm ground or making a tight turn. Keep the vehicle moving slowly in a straight line, release the throttle, and switch the locker off. If the light stays on, roll forward and backward gently to unload the gears. Do not force a turn just to make the indicator go dark.
Some systems release immediately. Others need a small amount of axle movement before the teeth separate. If the locker remains engaged after several gentle attempts, stop and inspect the warning light, fuse, air pressure, wiring, or actuator. A locker stuck on is a recovery problem, not something to ignore for the next 300 miles of pavement.
Rear differential locker engagement while driving becomes predictable when you learn the specific system in your rig. Practice on a dirt lot before a ledge, note the engagement speed, and verify that the light matches what the tires are doing. Put the manual in the glove box, carry a spare fuse, and protect exposed wiring near the axle.
My trail checklist
Before using the locker, confirm that you are in the correct 4WD range and that the axle is at a crawl. Pick the line first, then engage before the difficult section rather than halfway through a wheelspin event. Keep your steering nearly straight and use steady throttle. If the vehicle stops moving, back out instead of adding a full pedal of power.
After the obstacle, unlock on loose or firm ground before turning sharply. Watch for unusual clicking, grinding, flashing indicators, or a locker that refuses to release. Those symptoms belong in the garage before the next expedition. A $40 inspection is cheaper than a tow from a trail with no cell service.
The useful question is not simply whether rear differential locker engagement while driving is possible. The useful question is whether your exact locker permits it, at what speed, and under what load. Read the installation manual, test the system, and drive it like an axle component rather than a video-game cheat code. If it hasn't broken in the backcountry, I don't recommend it.